From The Daily Dialogue
From The Daily Dialogue
Broadcast of 1/28/98
Subject: [DailyDialogue #28] Security
"Man's security comes from within himself, and the security of all men is founded upon the security of the individual." - Manly Hall
I heard my former husband say he was attracted to me because a relationship with me meant security. We often expect others to make us feel loved. As we learn to love and trust ourselves regardless of the circumstances around us, we tend to experience more security in our relationships.
We can trust that change is a constant and when we go through change we experience fear. It doesn't matter if we label the change good or bad, it results in a sense of loss. One way of perceiving loss is that it is merely a change in the form of a relationship or situation.
Security is a state of mind. If we trust in the belief that love is everywhere present, we give up the expectation that someone else is responsible for making us feel secure. We can then focus on being trustworthy and creating a safe place for our partner to share their feelings.
Experiment - Dialogue with your partner about security. What does it mean to you? How much security are you experiencing in your life right now? How can you express love and trust in yourself today?
Affirmation - I am safe and secure right where I am.
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