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From The Daily Dialogue

Broadcast of 8/4/98

Subject: [DailyDialogue #214] Exits

"If only we had known about this sooner...We have to decide to decide..." - Random comments from couples
On the path of relationship, we have many roads to choose from. Many of us attempt to take short cuts when we are in the traffic jam of conflict. Choosing an exit often finds us taking the long way around, stuck at the various stop signs of our lives.

When we are having difficulty with relationship, we exit off the path of higher consciousness in many ways. We exit by becoming depressed, having panic attacks or throwing tantrums. We exit by turning to alcohol and drugs, having affairs or threatening divorce. We exit by burying our heads in our work.

The consequence may be divorce, losing children or even death. I work with couples who have taken exits that have brought them into counseling. As they learn the dialogue tools, they recognize it is a conscious decision to decide to do the work. They begin to recognize that the path of taking time each day to connect at the heart, saves a great deal of future heartache.

Experiment: Dialogue about unhealthy exits you may be taking in your relationships.

Affirmation: I am on a conscious path of love. The Daily Dialogue is published each day of 1998 by e-mail. Copyright 1998, Eddy Brame and Marty Crouch, All rights reserved.


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